I’ve Got the Eye of the Tiger

Eye of the Tiger_001

Hello lovely people! I am feeling pretty good and loving my summer. I hope everyone in the USA had a happy and safe Independence Day. Mine was pretty relaxing. Just a few thoughts I would like to share today.

If you read my last post, you’ll note I have been refocusing on what makes me happy these days. Putting myself first. Last week I got the itch to take a sexy photo or two, so I did and I started thinking about something. How do you start putting yourself first? Easy. Your voice.

Eye of the Tiger_004

Okay maybe not so easy. Actually really not easy at times. Particularly if you really worry about what the people around you think. Sometimes it is really hard to tell someone what they need to hear. It’s hard to tell others what we want. We want people to like us so we say “Yes” even though we really want to say “NO.”

At times, it may not be easy, but if you use your voice, you will be heard. And I don’t mean just once in awhile. Consistently and honestly (and mostly politely unless they’re being a complete imbecile) say what you mean with your voice. Family and friends can support and care for you but they are unable to reach out and give you what you want. They can’t read your mind. They can help in some ways but the only one who can truly help get you where you want to be is yourself. So do what I am doing or trying to do… Roar.

Honestly, this post is a shoutout to all the lovely ladies in my life that are going through hard times right now. I may not have gone through the same situation, but we all go through rough times and we sink. We need reminders that we are worth it. We deserve happiness. We deserve love. We deserve to do whatever makes our hearts glow. Don’t let anyone make you believe otherwise. Even when we make mistakes, keep going, and don’t stop. Continue following your heart and the rest will follow.

Eye of the Tiger

My look today is inspired by my inner Tigress and the empowering lyrics of Katy Perry’s Roar. My dress and lingerie set are from Blueberry in the Date Night set. Mesh fitted models included are for Maitreya, 3 Belleza bodies, and 2 Slink bodies. This set comes in several colors and the fatpack option includes exclusive color options. I recently went to Hair Fair and grabbed Aschera made by Runaway. The rings and shells on the hair have several color options and add an extra exotic touch that has me feeling sexy and confident. Grab it at Hair Fair to support Wigs for Kids! Only a few days left.

So cheers to my girlies (and the gents too!)! You know who you are. Without you I would not be where I am today and you’ve certainly helped me find my roar. Love to you all and see you soon. ❤

Credits

Hair: Runaway – [RA] Aschera Hair – Essential ~ by Candela Kira @ Hair Fair 2017

Dress/Lingerie: Blueberry – Date Night – Maitreya/Belleza/Slink – Fat Pack ~ by Blueberryxx Resident

My Body Details

Tiger: Jinx : Liger “Nare” – Reclining Rezzable – COMMON ~ by Julala Demina

Sim: Lost Unicorn

Links — > Hair Fair

Made My Skin a Little Bit Thicker

Boardwalk_011

A little bit of a rant or musing to start things off today followed by a special giveaway to celebrate reaching 50 blog posts! Read on to find out about the giveaway!

Lately I have been reminiscing on some of the events of the past year or so. Remembering the people that have moved in and out of my life and the lessons I have taken from them. It is incredible what an influence some people have had in such a short time while other lessons came from mistakes or taking a wrong turn. My morning has been a bit quieter than usual as I remember those lessons.

I know my last few posts have been a bit more upbeat and summery cheerful, so this post probably seems a bit less peppy. As a human, I can only be cheerful for so long before another obstacle gets thrown in my path that tries to knock me down. But you know what? I will keep fighting for the happiness I know I deserve. Maybe I need a day or two to get back into gear, but I will never stop swinging my bat at each ball that tries to strike me out. So my adventure for today took me to a baseball field in Chicago where I practiced focusing on hitting each ball out of the park and refocusing my mind on what is important. What is that you ask? Well… Me.

Boardwalk_012

Now that might sound selfish, but consider this. If you spread yourself too thin, trying to please everyone you come across, you can never be happy because you have no time for yourself and what makes you happy. This was something I’ve had to learn and really, I’m still working on it. My health and happiness are first and foremost before I can be expected to help others. I will always make time for those who are closest to me; yet I have reevaluated who those people are and adjusted my priorities accordingly to give myself the best chance of smiling every day. Life is too short. Spend it doing what you love and with the people you love.

Boardwalk_013

So, you’re probably wondering by now if i will just get to the clothes I’m wearing. Don’t fret! Today I am wearing a fun T-shirt dress from Dark Water Designs that is currently at the Cart Sale in three colors and a couple solid knit versions. Included are five standard mesh sizes and fitted models for Belleza Isis & Venus, Slink Physique & Hourglass, Maitreya Lara, and TMP bodies. I really love how this dress fits and feels a bit sporty. The small clipping on the leg is really only visible because of the pose I used. Wear it to a game or at home while getting comfy on the couch. I paired it with some of my favorite sneakers from REIGN and was set for the day. Find this dress and more at the Cart Sale before it ends July 5th!

Boardwalk_015

Now on to the giveaway that I mentioned. My sponsors =EC Designs= and Mishmash Fusion have kindly donated a couple gift cards to help me mark the occasion of reaching 50 blog posts. The prizes are a 500L Gift Card to =EC Designs= and a 400L Gift Card for Mishmash Fusion. If you browse my blog and Flickr, you’ll see some of the items of theirs I have blogged in the past. How to enter to win? Comment below with what you enjoy doing in the summer and your secondlife username. I will be using a random name picker to select a winner who will be announced in the comments, Facebook Page, Plurk, and Twitter. Deadline to enter will be Saturday July 8th at 5:00PM SLT.

Until next time! ~ Autumn

Credits

Hair: TRUTH HAIR – Austen – reds ~ by Truth Hawks

Dress: Dark Water Designs – 69 Tee Dress, baby pink ~ by Shadowed Luik @ Cart Sale June 2017

Shoes: REIGN – ARIANNA SNEAKERS- FATPACK ~ by Kenadeecole Resident

My Body Details

Links — > Cart Sale, Mishmash Fusion, =EC Designs=

Nothing But a Hound Dog: Rally to Rescue!

nothing-but-a-hound-dog_28199088356_o

One of the true joys in life has to be the unconditional love of an animal. You give them food, shelter, and love, and they give you so much more than words can describe. You gain a loyal friend, a confidante, a constant companion, and the a sense of hope and peace only found in the bond between an animal and human. Now there are many noble causes in the world to fight for; one that is very close to my heart is that of animal rescue.

Every single animal deserves a loving home. These creatures know no hate other than natural predatory instincts in the wild, and sometimes, not even then. There are countless videos and pictures on the web showing animals that normally don’t get along laying right next to each other. Cats have nursed puppies and vise versa. A deer grew up in one woman’s home with her dog; after she had been released she still came back to play with the dog. It amazes me what hope animals bring into this world. But not all animals are so lucky.

Ghost Bullys MC has chosen to be the voice for animals who can’t speak for themselves to ask for help. They are currently holding their second annual fundraiser event to provide funds for no kill animal rescue shelters and have partnered with several well known SL designers (list of sponsors at the end of this post) to offer exclusive items for the event. All sales and donations from the event will go to Animal Rescues. You can find find receipts from last year’s event at the landing point for Rally to Rescue. There are multiple events still to come at the Rally to Rescue site and two days left to shop using the Shopping Hud. To use the Hud, simply open the dog that is sent to you, attach the Hud, allow it to animate you, and click which shop you want to visit! Below is the schedule for all the things to do and see. Contact Raceyy Resident inworld for more information!

Sim: Rally to Rescue

Dates: July 8th to July 12th

Monday July 11th
continued – Rally To Rescue Shopping Hud!
12pm – Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young Tribute Concert (street concert)
3pm – Rally To Rescue Charity Rideout (all are welcome!)
6pm – Motorhead Tribute Concert

Tuesday July 12th
continued – Rally To Rescue Shopping Hud!
12pm – Eric Clapton Tribute Concert (street stage)
3pm – Rally To Rescue Charity Rideout (all are welcome!)
6pm – Cutest Pet Photo Contest Ends
6pm – Halestorm Tribute Concert

The dress I’m wearing comes in a fatpack version from Blueberry and comes in all standard mesh sizes as well as fitted meshes for the Maireya, Slink, and Belleza bodies. Panties are included as a part of the dress which can be turned on and off via the Panties Hud and the colors of both the dress and the panties can be changed via a separate Hud.

TRUTH HAIR is also participating in this event with this lovely mesh hair in all of their color packs.  Two sizes are included to ensure a good fit but always try a demo before purchase!

If you’re wondering where i picked up this box of kittens, take a look around =Zenith=. They seem to be overflowing with the little furballs. Maybe pick up a few while you’re there? They come in different colored baskets and plenty of different colored kitties to choose from. All color and texture change options are included in your purchase via a convenient texture Hud. Considering how cute they are, you may end up taking them all home! Which, in the end, is what this event is all about. Let’s give every animal a chance for a forever home. Remember, ALL sales and ALL donations from this event go to help animals in need!

nothing-but-a-hound-dog_28129031252_o

nothing-but-a-hound-dog_27617469983_o

Credits

Hair: TRUTH HAIR – Opal – browns ~ by Truth Hawks for Rally to Rescue

Dress: Blueberry – Sabina – Queen Mode Activated – Fat Pack ~ by Blueberryxx Resident for Rally to Rescue

Necklace: .Olive. – the Scout’s Heart Pendent – Space Gold & Pink ~ by Naminaeko Resident @ The Crystal Heart Festival Gacha Prize

Kittens: =Zenith= – Adopt Kitten Basket (all colors) Rez/Wear ~ by Miffyhoi Rosca for Rally to Rescue

Dog Statue: [NC] – Hachiko The Faithful ~ by Andycool90 Resdient for Rally to Rescue

Cat Bookends: [NC] – Mao Bookholder ~ by Andycool90 Resdient for Rally to Rescue

Loft: uk – Industrial Loft ~ by Jamie Rozenberg for Rally to Rescue

Shoes: Pure Poison – Lea Pumps [BOXED] – FAMESHED GIFT ~ by Shaleene Kenin

Rally_to_Rescue_Shopping_Hud

Second Annual GBMC Rally To Rescue 2016

Take Me to Dictatorshop

25831200720_b554826fa9_o

Hello readers! I hope this post finds you in good spirits and sun-kissed. I’ve been working out in my garden a bit and setting out some new toys I’ve recently discovered. This is just a heads up that the featured item in this post does contain content suited for 18+ readers. Images are SFW, but content is not suited for people under 18. Read below for the full post.

Now, as I was saying. I was working out in the garden, setting up this new trellis from Dictatorshop when my hubby logs on and spies my short skirt. *facepalms* He promptly scooped me up like I was some prized booty..er treasure. Well.. One thing led to another and I was more than happy to oblige. Spring fever is running high and Dictatorshop’s new trellis just adds to the fun. So what can this fine piece of wood, I mean trellis, do?

As you can see, there’s some nice decorative roses and grass with cuddles and kisses. The pose my husband has me in the picture is in the lift menu named GotYou. The grass and roses are safe to leave out at all times, but if you’re feeling the heat picking up, click the small Dictatorshop logo on the bottom of one of the back posts. This accesses the naughty menus with Femdom and Maledom adult poses. Once a menu is chosen, a Trapmat rezzes in place of the cuddle grass. There are RLV capabilities in the trellis but the menus work great for people who don’t use RLV too. I can personally guarantee this because I do not use RLV at all. Once both partners sit and choose their appropriate role, the fun times begin with plenty of pose options. Dominants have control of the menu and can access the GiveProps button for any extra toys athat may be needed.

What makes this piece great is that it looks perfect in the yard and functions well for both PG and adult use. Security of the menu can be set to owner only, which keeps any random wanderers from messing with the trellis. While the grass and roses are safe to leave out, you can clear them to save on prims as well. You can also change the texture of the trellis with the included HUD to match your house or other garden décor.

If you go to the inworld location (adult sim), for a limited time save 40% on everything in the shop! There’s also two hunt gifts out for 1 linden that have a fun April flavor to them. Full details at the shop’s blog here. Have fun with a new trellis that is more than worth the linden. Enjoy your garden!

Credits

Trellis: Dictatorshop – [Ds] Modern Bondage Trellis v1.0a ~ (Dictatorshop)

~~~My Outfit~~~

Top/Skirt: HANAU – Floral Summer Outfit Combination 5 -boxed- ~ (DelaRosa Glimmer)

Shoes: Dark Water Designs – DWD – Wedge Sneakers – Vintage Grunge ~ (Shadowed Luik)

Hair: +Spellbound+ – Wolves – DUO // Chapter I : Earth ~ (Kohana Xue)

Born to Be Wild at the Cart Sale

25917919826_267b8445ea_o

With the onset of spring rolling around, there’s lots of bright and happy dresses being pulled out of the closets and great sales going on. One of my favorite sales events is The Cart Sale @The Wash which offers all items for 10 lindens with the option of one item being 50L. Right now Spring Freshness is the theme of this round’s Cart Sale and there certainly is a lot of spring fever going on. I, for one, loved exploring the grittier side of the theme, which led me to get back onto my bike for a little ride around a new roleplay sim called Dark Edinburgh. Continue reading

A Bright Sunshiny Day with the Chicken Egg Hunt

bright-sunshiny-day_25411429270_o

If you’re like me, you’re looking out your window and hoping to see a bit of sunshine. Are you ready for spring? I know I am. Easter is a bit early this year, inspiring visions of spring, and you can see its effects everywhere. Fi’s Hunts has a hunt going on this month called The Chicken Egg Hunt and it will continue from now until the end of the month. So I’m hopping right into some sneak peeks of goodies to share with you all!

GET FROCKED is offering an adorable blue dress for The Chicken Egg Hunt. The blue is light and soft like a clear sky. Looking closer, you’ll see the dress is covered in little prints of baby chicks. What could feel more spring-like than baby chicks? Standard fitted mesh sizes are included along with fitted meshes for the Maitreya, Slink, and Belleza bodies.

Looking to do some gardening? Simply Shelby is offering a sweet garden patch with little flowers and freshly hatched chicks. Rocks border the edges to keep things neat and tidy. This cute patch would look darling along the front of any home.

As a nice accent to any garden or just a cute decorative piece for your porch, {Sickly SWEET} designed some clay pots for this hunt. Flowers tumble out of them as they remind us that spring is on its way.

Happy Hunting and see you in the next post!

Hunt Info

Duration: March 10-31

Start Point ~ Hint Page ~ Fi’s Hunts Website

bright-sunshiny-day_25411515640_o

Credits

~~~My  Outfit~~~

Hair: +Spellbound+ – Interlude // Chapter I : Earth ~ (Kohana Xue) @Whore Couture

Dress: GET FROCKED – Chicken Egg Hunt Ruched Dress ~ (Vampira Voom) @TCEH

Shoes: SHEY – Sweet Bow Stilettos ~ (Moi Deluxe)

~~~Props & Things~~~

House: dust bunny – poppy cottage . RARE ~ (Lxlnoel Resident) @past Arcade

Garden Patch: Simply Shelby – Spring Garden Patch w/Easter Chicks ~ (Shelby Olivier) @TCEH

Pots: {Sickly SWEET} – Easter Clay Pots ~ (Eve Rhosar) @TCEH

Pose: !bang – seraph ~ (Luna Jubilee) @We ❤ RP

Links —> Fi’s Hunts Website ~ Fi’s Hunts Hints ~ Whore Couture Fair ~ We ❤ RP

2016 - 03 - Chicken Egg Hunt

Ice Inside Your Soul

 

And who do you think you are?/Runnin’ ’round leaving scars

Collecting your jar of hearts/And tearing love apart

You’re gonna catch a cold/From the ice inside your soul

So don’t come back for me/Who do you think you are?

Jar of Hearts, Christina Perri

I am no Cinderella, but I certainly love dressing like her. But in this gown I feel more like the Snow Queen. Beautiful and aloof. Ready to steal everyone’s attention then disappear with nothing behind except a footprint in the snow.

Cinderella would have left her glass slipper behind. Cinderella’s prince would have found it and rescued his princess with the help of her glass slipper. But me? There’s no way I would leave my lovely glass slippers from Mishmash Fusion in the snow. These lovely shoes look lightly frosted with little etches all over. A decorative spiral and curved piece on the back and small piece on the toes add a touch of fairytale magic to these whimsical heels. The strap across the front insures no loss of footwear while you dance the night away with Prince Charming. I just love these darling Slink shoes.

The gown I’m wearing is from Evie’s Closet and comes in a few other colors. I had no problems with sizes with this dress which includes several sizes. It’s elegant and formal enough for any event you might attend. I simply adore how the texturing of this gown was down to look light and airy, as if the skirt will twirl out as your dance partner spins you across the dance floor.

Around my neck I’m wearing a necklace given to me by my own Prince Charming for Christmas. This lovely locket comes with a menu to change metal color, gem type, and to play a secret message written on a notecard in the locket’s contents. As part of the Twisted Krissmuss gifts, I do not know if this will still be available after the event but Chaos, Panic, & Disorder has beautiful jewelry so I wanted to share a special piece I was given. Twisted Krissmuss ends January 11th.

I hope everyone’s new year is going well and I will try to post more regularly now that the holidays are over. Until next time lovelies. 🙂 ❤

24051906356_598399f4e0_o

Credits

Gown: Evie’s Closet – *EC* Giselle Gown – Ice  ~ (Evangeline Miles)

Shoes: Mishmash Fusion – Mitsy’s Glass Slippers- Sweetest Perfection ~ (Mystical Edenflower)

Necklace: Chaos, Panic, & Disorder – *CPD* Key to My Heart Necklace ~ (Lilah Munster) @ Twisted Krissmuss

Crown: Luminary – Meabh Crown ~ (Augurer Resident)

Hair: Calico Hair – *C* Marian – Reds ~ (Calico Ingmann)

Body: Maitreya – Mesh Body – Lara ~ (Onyx LaShelle)

Feet: Slink – AvEnhance Feet Female High ~ (Siddan Munro)

Pose: an lar [poses] – The Infiniti Series ~ (Katya Valeska)