Just Start Loving Me

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It’s been over a week since Valentine’s day. But there’s still plenty of fluff and hearts floating around the grid you wouldn’t think the day of love had passed. If you’re looking for some new furniture that has a romantic touch, there’s a few pieces from Dictatorshop that are purrfect year-round. Have a looksy at some of my new bedroom additions. You’re sure to find something you can’t live without.

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For the centerpiece of your or your loved one’s bedroom, Dictatorshop has a romantic bed at Cosmopolitan at 20% off full price through February 24th. This bed only comes in the Adult version but there are plenty of PG animations to use if that’s not your style. The stool that came in this February’s Bound Box matches the main texture of the bed. Edit: The stool’s textures can be changed between a variety of love and floral themed textures and the bed has some nice soft colors to choose from that have a spring feel. It is an adult bed, but there’s menus for singles, couples cuddles and kisses, and massage as well.

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On sale at the mainstore is a fabulous addition to the Chesterfield set, the Chesterfield Ladies’ Chaise. This piece is perfect for lounging in your bedroom with a book, relaxing, or snuggling up with your fella. My favorite part of this set is that there are bento animations that are just so adorable and too perfect for words. If you love being cute and flirty or love taking photos with your love, there are lots of nice poses to choose from. Like the other pieces in the set, you can change the texture of the leather and metals through the hud in the back.

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Another gem that was inspired by all of the romantic ideas of Valentine’s day was the Lip Chairs and Thrones. Choose either the PG version of the sofa or the adult version with all of the throne options in the Dicatorshop line.  Both sets include the choice of either regular lips or a mustache lips sofa. Animations included are single sits, cuddles, and dances for the PG sofa.

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Whether you love Valentine’s day or just love romantic style furniture, there’s a lot to pick from this month at Dictatorshop that suits every hopeless romantic. On a special note, Dictatorshop is holding a short sale this weekend. Get 40% off giftcards through February 26th. Also be sure to fill out the survey here to let Dee know what you would love to see her make to add to your home!


~My Look ~

Hair: 5.Doe – Mary (solid) – Indecisive RARE ~ by Helyanwe Vindaloo

Top: .Atomic. – Devotion Sweater – V-Day Exclusive ~ by Ivy Graves

Pants: Blueberry – Sammy Jeans – Fatpack ~ by Blueberryxx Resident

Lingerie: Scandalize. – VDAY GIFT! ~ by Yanikka Resident

Shoes: Blueberry – Sammy Boots ~ by Blueberryxx Resident

My Body Details

~ Furniture ~

Bed: Dictatorshop – [Ds] Valentine Heart Bed M/F ADULT ~ by Dictatorshop Resident @ Cosmopolitan

Stool: Dictatorshop – [Ds] Boudoir Stool – Adult OMNI Version ~ by Dictatorshop Resident @ Bound Box

Chaise: Dictatorshop – [Ds] Chesterfield Ladies Chaise PG ~ by Dictatorshop Resident

Lips: Dictatorshop – [Ds] Lip Chair PG Version ~ by Dictatorshop Resident

Table: +Half-Deer+ Princess Heart Table [FATPACK] ~ by Halogen Magic

Side Tables: {what next} – Amelie Chest of Drawers ~ by Winter Thorn

Skybox: tarte. – primrose skybox ~ by Alixxbella Resident

~ Extras ~

Neon Signs: floorplan. – neon butt ~ by Tegan Serin ♦ [Kres] – Naughty Neon – Fuck Me ~ by KrescendoStore ♦ floorplan. – neon xoxo ~ by Tegan Serin

Circle Sign: Refuge – Valentine 2018 Love Frame ~ by Refugestore Resident @ Shop Your Heart Out

Rug: The Loft – Soft & Subtle [Arcade] – Flouncy Rug ~ by Colleen Desmoulins

Books: +Half-Deer+ – Book Clutter [Set of 3 Colors] ~ by Halogen Magic

Curtains: tarte. – gazebo curtains ~ by Alixxbella Resident

Shelves: +Half-Deer+ – Chroma Glass Shelves [FATPACK] ~ by Halogen Magic

Eiffel: Boudoir – Paper Silhouette Eiffel ~ by Precious Restless @ Shop Your Heart Out (gacha)

Candle: The Loft – Soft & Subtle [Arcade] – Tiered Candle ~ by Colleen Desmoulins

Make-up: FetchxVeechi – Makeup Clutter RARE ~ by Distorteddreams Resident

Room Clutter: +Half-Deer+ – Lingerie Clutter [Red Set] ~ by Halogen Magic ♦ +Half-Deer+ – Lazypuff Bunny – Fierce Foxy ~ by Halogen Magic ♦ +Half-Deer+ – Beep – Pandapuff ~ by Halogen Magic ♦ Aisling & Voluptas Virtuals – 16/.a. DIY Love Potion – Alchemy of Love – RARE ~ by Druunah Esharham ♦ +Half-Deer+ – Merkitty – Watcha Doin’ (Aqua) ~ by Halogen Magic ♦ +Half-Deer+ – First Class Kitty – Shopaholics – Snow RARE ~ by Halogen Magic

Links — > Dictatorshop, CosmopolitanBlueberry, Shop Your Heart Out, Bound Box


Wake Up Where the Clouds Are Far Behind Me

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Good day folks! I’m feeling a little light on my feet today and maybe a touch whimsical. I feel a bit like Dorothy, floating up high with the birds and headed somewhere over a rainbow in the clouds. Not quite sure what’s in these balloons but they are lighter than air! I’m sharing just a couple more items today that you can find at the Cart Sale. Tomorrow is the last day so check it out ASAP.

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My dress for this picture comes from Classy Chics and is made only for the Maitreya body. There are ten color/prints up for sale for 10L and each comes with a tintable sleeve option that adds a bit more coverage and adds a subtle cutesy vibe. Pantie appliers in white and black are also included since it is such a short dress. My shoes are from Lourdes of London and are made for Slink only. There are five colors available to pick from and they make great staple pieces for any wardrobe. Dress them up for a night out or dress them down with a cute pair of jeans. Lastly, I wore the panties from Girlush’s lingerie set instead of the ones that came with the dress. This set is fitted for Maitreya as well and has a smexy lacey texture that just barely hides what it needs to. All of these items I’ve described are on sale for 10L at the Cart Sale.

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Just for fun, the balloon floatie I’m sitting on is from Blueberry and is a group gift OR you can get it off the Marketplace for 1L. It comes in a pack of 10 floaties with really cute rubber duckies, froggies, other balloons and more.

I have more to share from my sponsor Dictatorshop and hope to post again soon so see you next time! ❤


~ My Look ~

Hair: Doe – Shannon ~ by Helyanwe Vindaloo

Dress: Classy Chics – Spring Mini Dress – Blue Dots ~ by Chanty Moonstone @ Cart Sale January 2018

Panties: Girlush – Intense Lingerie Black ~ by Ushnasan Resident @ Cart Sale January 2018

Hand Jewels: Kibitz – Sandra hand jewelry – silver ~ by Kathya Szczepanski @ N21

Shoes: Loordes of London – The Calculating Shoe-#15 ~ by Coleen Macarthur @ Cart Sale January 2018

My Body Details

~ Extras ~

Floatie: Blueberry – Floatie Collection Gift ~ by Blueberryxx Resident

Puppy: JIAN – Splendid Spaniels BOX 15. Ruby Held ~ by Jiansl Resident

Backdrop: FOXCITY. – Weightless Booth (VIP Gift 02-18) ~ by Satomi Masukami

Links — > Cart Sale January 2018, N21, Blueberry

Another Winter Day Has Come and Gone Away


Sanctuary. Peace. Tranquility. We all have different images that come to mind when we read or hear these words. For some they are tropical beaches with shady palm trees and clear blue water. Someone else might picture a vast forest of various species of trees, some changing with the colors of fall and birds quietly chirping overhead. Perhaps they are sitting indoors, blankets and a cat nestled around oneself, rain or snow falling outside the window.

I’ve found myself searching for peace and quiet lately. The desire for solitude ebbs and flows in me like the tide, changes like the seasons, and never really disappears. Clarity. When I hear this word I inevitably think of snowflakes and crystals. Wouldn’t a more accurate image be water or glass? Maybe. In any case, moments of solitude often bring a sense of clarity that is so rejuvenating and enlightening to me. When faced with a problem, only withdrawing from the world and into a book or taking pictures in Secondlife has ever given me true clarity and peace of mind.


For this picture, I decided to play in the snow with some sleds made from Dictatorshop. The bench sled has a combination of both PG and Adult animations set up for all combinations of genders and dominance styles. While the bench sled has the option of cuddles and a nice blanket, the standing sled (also OMNI with all four gender and dominance styles) which is sold separately is more like Dictatorshop’s bondage crosses. Also included with the standing sled is a snowball giver for some added playful winter games. Both sleds have an excellent selection of animations under all of its menus. If you don’t mind a bit of cold weather, these sleds give a new definition to a winter wonderland.



~ My Outfit ~

Hair: Doe – Its Cold Outside – BishBox Exclusive ~ by Helyanwe Vindaloo

Jacket/Top: Blueberry – Ela Jackets – Maitreya/Belleza/Slink – Fat Pack ~ by Blueberryxx Resident

Pants: Blueberry – Cake – Maitreya/Belleza/Slink – Fat Pack ~ by Blueberryxx Resident


My Body Details

~ Furniture & Decor ~

Sled 1: Dictatorshop – [Ds] miSLED Bench Bondage – OMNI Version ~ by Dictatorshop Resident

Sled 2: Dictatorshop – [Ds] miSLED Standing Bondage – OMNI version ~ by Dictatorshop Resident

Snowmen: brocante. – snowman gacha / smirk, sledding mishap, & wee ones squad ~ by ValiantCo Resident

Snow Critters: +Half-Deer+ – Snow Animals [Arctic Friends] ~ by Halogen Magic

Backdrop: .gypsy heart. – Festive Backdrops – Snowy Cliff ~ by Shortstuffmcge Resident

Trees: Studio Skye – Enchanted Woods V2 ~ Alex Bader

Links — > Dictatorshop, Blueberry


Bulletproof, Nothing to Lose


Pitter patter drip drap
Rainfall on the windowpane
Soft as a lover’s kiss

Rap rap tink tink
Like broken glass falling upon the ground
Gentle as an ocean wave

Splish sploosh splat
Puddles overflowing in streets
Peacefully chaoticly dancing

Nothing breaks its spirt
Everything gives it beauty
The water dancer never halts

Flowing, dancing, rolling and circling

In my picture, I am wearing the Poppy Jacket and Poppy Leggings from Blueberry. Both come in sizes for Maitreya, Slink Physique & Hourglass, and Belleza Venus, Isis, and Freya bodies. The leggings come with a hud that allows you to pick which type of booty you want because Blueberry created a new Blueberry booty but also included the standard booty option. You can also choose a yoga foot version or an under boot version in either booty type on the included HUD. An additional fun button is the wedgie animation because these leggings really hug every curve! The jackets include the option to have a double color effect on the cuffs and part of the front.


Hair: TRUTH VIP October – Makena ~ by Truth Hawks

Jacket: Blueberry – Poppy Jackets ~ by Blueberryxx

Pants: Blueberry – Poppy Leggings ~ by Blueberryxx

My Body Details

Sim: Sophia Harlow’s Land


Be Sure to Wear Some Flowers In Your Hair

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Summer is nearing its end and I find myself feeling a bit bittersweet about it. I suppose there is a bit of sadness for another ending and I didn’t get everything done that I wanted to, but such is life. Of course I am looking forward to the cooler temperatures and fall is my favorite season with colorful leaves, pumpkins, black cats, and ghoulies peeking around corners.

In the early hours of the morning I will be leaving for my last summer adventure to Hawaii, a place I have never been to yet and have wanted to visit for years. Images of the sea and white beaches, abundant flora across an island, and a love of tradition come to mind when I think of this place. Not just volcanoes, grass skirts, and coconuts. I don’t really know what it will be like, but I am excited to go and enjoy a new atmosphere. While Hawaii is a part of the United States, its roots are much older and I am looking forward to learning about Polynesian culture.

Perhaps I am also a little sad because my great grandmother has been on hospice care for a few weeks and the recent visit I had with her may be my last. I have loved going to see her, but it is also difficult to watch her wither away. We talked about my upcoming trip, and she said it sounded like it would be nice and wishes she would’ve gone sometime but she had never been a big traveler. She tells me I need to bring a boyfriend back home with me. I chuckled and told her I would be trying to anyway. She gives me hope. Don’t I love her just for that?

So as I finish up packing and get my carry on ready, I am keeping my great grandmother in my heart, taking her with me to Hawaii to create new memories to share with my family and friends. I will be putting flowers in my hair and enjoying what adventure and love I can find.

Aloha! ❤

~ My Look ~

Blueberry – Lace Tops Gift ~ by Blueberryxx Resident

TRUTH HAIR – TRUTH Margarita – Selection ~ by Truth Hawks

My Body Details

Sim: Maison de L’amitie



I’ve Got the Eye of the Tiger

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Hello lovely people! I am feeling pretty good and loving my summer. I hope everyone in the USA had a happy and safe Independence Day. Mine was pretty relaxing. Just a few thoughts I would like to share today.

If you read my last post, you’ll note I have been refocusing on what makes me happy these days. Putting myself first. Last week I got the itch to take a sexy photo or two, so I did and I started thinking about something. How do you start putting yourself first? Easy. Your voice.

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Okay maybe not so easy. Actually really not easy at times. Particularly if you really worry about what the people around you think. Sometimes it is really hard to tell someone what they need to hear. It’s hard to tell others what we want. We want people to like us so we say “Yes” even though we really want to say “NO.”

At times, it may not be easy, but if you use your voice, you will be heard. And I don’t mean just once in awhile. Consistently and honestly (and mostly politely unless they’re being a complete imbecile) say what you mean with your voice. Family and friends can support and care for you but they are unable to reach out and give you what you want. They can’t read your mind. They can help in some ways but the only one who can truly help get you where you want to be is yourself. So do what I am doing or trying to do… Roar.

Honestly, this post is a shoutout to all the lovely ladies in my life that are going through hard times right now. I may not have gone through the same situation, but we all go through rough times and we sink. We need reminders that we are worth it. We deserve happiness. We deserve love. We deserve to do whatever makes our hearts glow. Don’t let anyone make you believe otherwise. Even when we make mistakes, keep going, and don’t stop. Continue following your heart and the rest will follow.

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My look today is inspired by my inner Tigress and the empowering lyrics of Katy Perry’s Roar. My dress and lingerie set are from Blueberry in the Date Night set. Mesh fitted models included are for Maitreya, 3 Belleza bodies, and 2 Slink bodies. This set comes in several colors and the fatpack option includes exclusive color options. I recently went to Hair Fair and grabbed Aschera made by Runaway. The rings and shells on the hair have several color options and add an extra exotic touch that has me feeling sexy and confident. Grab it at Hair Fair to support Wigs for Kids! Only a few days left.

So cheers to my girlies (and the gents too!)! You know who you are. Without you I would not be where I am today and you’ve certainly helped me find my roar. Love to you all and see you soon. ❤


Hair: Runaway – [RA] Aschera Hair – Essential ~ by Candela Kira @ Hair Fair 2017

Dress/Lingerie: Blueberry – Date Night – Maitreya/Belleza/Slink – Fat Pack ~ by Blueberryxx Resident

My Body Details

Tiger: Jinx : Liger “Nare” – Reclining Rezzable – COMMON ~ by Julala Demina

Sim: Lost Unicorn

Links — > Hair Fair


So I’m Gonna Love You Now

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April is here and I am enjoying seeing flowers beginning to crop up from the ground. The showers will pour as they inevitably do, but with the rain comes new life and I’m finding I need that reminder as of late. A lot has been on my mind so I’ve been taking time to de-stress and just recharge. So I decided to take a little stroll and found a spot to relax, cuddle up with someone, and just pass the time.

This cozy spot I found is in a little gazebo made by =EC Designs=. It is for the Cart Sale at the Wash in birch and walnut for only 10L. Along with the gazebo, you get a bench, a little fountain pitcher, and a tree stump with cuddles. Not only is the set the perfect focal point for any garden, it has a multitude of single and couple animations in the bench, cuddle stump, AND the gazebo itself. Each set has a decorative tree stump and a pitcher fountain to complete the charm. 10L is a steal with all the animation options for singles and couples in each piece. Get yours in one or both wood options while you can!

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My look today has a couple pieces from Luxe Box and Bishbox which are subscription boxes in secondlife. My lovely top is from Tee*fy (Lara and both Slink sizes) and my shoes are from Empire (Lara, both Slink, 3 Belleza, and TMP sizes), both in March’s Luxe Box. Both items fit well and have lovely texture options on their HUDs. On my ears you’ll find gorgeous earrings by Empyrean Forge. These come with a hud that lets you change the metal color. My hair is from Doe; I adore this hair because I love Doe’s gingers and her textures are so well done. Two sizes are included with one that is designed with larger breasts in mind. All color pack huds come in this set and you are able to change the hat color from a sizable array of options. Both earrings and hair are from March’s Bishbox. For info on how to join either subscription box, please check my favorites tab for the page on subscription box websites.

Finally, my smexy pants are Blueberry’s latest pants release. Gracie comes in a wide selection of denim and leather options for Maitreya, Slink Physique & Hourglass, all three Belleza, and TMP mesh body sizes. The fatpack has exclusive metallic colors. What is really special about these pants is that you get the option of just the pant or a version with a cute boot attached with beautiful beadwork on the heel. Metals and beads can be changed via the included HUDs. As many of us know, Blueberry makes our butts look fabulous.

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I’ll be posting again soon with more finds from the Cart Sale. See you again soon! 🙂



Hair: Doe – Christie – Bishbox Exclusive ~ by Helyanwe Vindaloo @ Bishbox March 2017

Earrings 1: Empyrean Forge – EF: Rhapsody Earrings ~ by Emypreanforge Resident @ Bishbox March 2017

Earrings 2: phedora. – Elven Earrings Set.1 ~ by Celena Galli

Necklace: **RE** – Kitty Pearls Set ~ by Crashnoww Resident @ Shiny Shabby March 2017

Top: Tee*fy – Luxe Box March 2017 ~ by Azure Electricteeth @ Luxe Box March 2017

Pants: Blueberry – Gracie – Fatpack ~ by Blueberryxx Resident

Shoes: EMPIRE – #EMPIRE – Lunaria ~ by Queensho Resident @ Luxe Box March 2017

Tail: Nadi Vemo – Jerboa tail 2016 BOX v0.999.2 ~ by Nadi Vemo

My Body Details

Gazebo/Benches/Tree Stumps: =EC Designs= – =EC Designs= (Woodland Set – Birch) ~ by Cara Lionheart & Jaxx Doulton @ Cart Sale March 2017

Sim: Serenity City

Links — > Cart Sale, =EC Designs=