Wake Up Where the Clouds Are Far Behind Me

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Good day folks! I’m feeling a little light on my feet today and maybe a touch whimsical. I feel a bit like Dorothy, floating up high with the birds and headed somewhere over a rainbow in the clouds. Not quite sure what’s in these balloons but they are lighter than air! I’m sharing just a couple more items today that you can find at the Cart Sale. Tomorrow is the last day so check it out ASAP.

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My dress for this picture comes from Classy Chics and is made only for the Maitreya body. There are ten color/prints up for sale for 10L and each comes with a tintable sleeve option that adds a bit more coverage and adds a subtle cutesy vibe. Pantie appliers in white and black are also included since it is such a short dress. My shoes are from Lourdes of London and are made for Slink only. There are five colors available to pick from and they make great staple pieces for any wardrobe. Dress them up for a night out or dress them down with a cute pair of jeans. Lastly, I wore the panties from Girlush’s lingerie set instead of the ones that came with the dress. This set is fitted for Maitreya as well and has a smexy lacey texture that just barely hides what it needs to. All of these items I’ve described are on sale for 10L at the Cart Sale.

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Just for fun, the balloon floatie I’m sitting on is from Blueberry and is a group gift OR you can get it off the Marketplace for 1L. It comes in a pack of 10 floaties with really cute rubber duckies, froggies, other balloons and more.

I have more to share from my sponsor Dictatorshop and hope to post again soon so see you next time! ❤


~ My Look ~

Hair: Doe – Shannon ~ by Helyanwe Vindaloo

Dress: Classy Chics – Spring Mini Dress – Blue Dots ~ by Chanty Moonstone @ Cart Sale January 2018

Panties: Girlush – Intense Lingerie Black ~ by Ushnasan Resident @ Cart Sale January 2018

Hand Jewels: Kibitz – Sandra hand jewelry – silver ~ by Kathya Szczepanski @ N21

Shoes: Loordes of London – The Calculating Shoe-#15 ~ by Coleen Macarthur @ Cart Sale January 2018

My Body Details

~ Extras ~

Floatie: Blueberry – Floatie Collection Gift ~ by Blueberryxx Resident

Puppy: JIAN – Splendid Spaniels BOX 15. Ruby Held ~ by Jiansl Resident

Backdrop: FOXCITY. – Weightless Booth (VIP Gift 02-18) ~ by Satomi Masukami

Links — > Cart Sale January 2018, N21, Blueberry


Trade Them for a Package of Sunshine and Flowers

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Hey everyone! I am back again and sharing some finds from the Cart Sale. I know I’m a bit late but you MUST see some of the wonderful spring inspired releases available before it ends February 14th. Don’t waste any time and go check it out now!

Where do I begin? There’s so much goodness to find and all at a bargain price of 10L per item. I’ll start with what my friend is wearing. The sweet green dress from Mishmash Fusion comes in mesh sizes for Maitreya, Slink Physique and Hourglass, Belleza Freya, Isis, and Venus, eBody bodies and standard fitmesh for classic avatars. At the Cart Sale, you can find this cute dress in six colors in the blossom print and two in a hearts prints all for 10L each. She paired her dress with these darling shoes and socks from The Dark Fae in the solid version. Each of the five packs of shoes with socks and the five sets of socks come with a HUD with several color or print options. Sizes come fitted for all Belleza, both Slink, Maitreya, and Tonic feet. These shoes and the sock versions are super adorable and honestly a steal considering each one has its own hud with color options.

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The second look is one I’m wearing in purple. I’m wearing a dress from K&A Design called Rhea and is available in three colors at the Cart Sale. This dress comes with all of the most popular mesh body sizes as well as standard mesh sizes and fitmesh sizes. I had no problems with fitting and the top part has just enough transparency for a little extra spice. My shoes are from Mishmash Fusion, made for Belleza, Maitreya, and Slink feet and are available in three colors.

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My second look shows an outfit from battle fairy that is available in several colors. These sets can be mix and matched if you buy more than one color or mix them with other tops or bottoms to your liking. I love the texturing on the top and skirt; the back details of the top give this outfit a nice surprise as you turn. Sizes included for this dress fit all three Belleza, both Slink, and Maitreya bodies. My final look for this post is a combo of a top from Dark Water Designs and a skirt from CroM. Dark Water Designs has two color versions of this fringed top for sale and they come with five standard mesh sizes as well as fitted models for Belleza, Maitreya, Slink eBody, Tonic, TMP, and Ocacin. You could pair this with some bikini bottoms and a sarong or shorts and be beach ready! From CroM, the skirt is a vibrant blue mini skirt that comes in standard mesh sizes and fitted models for Belleza, Slink, Maitreya, TMP, eBody, and Tonic bodies.

I have a lot of the furniture pieces from =EC Designs= packed into this post and it’s really a steal if you grabbed everything. 60L for a full furniture set is a bargain. This retro inspired set works great for small spaces and offers a lot of animation options in the couch, chairs, cabinet, and bookcase for singles and couples. Just want the couch and chairs or just the chairs? Each item comes in its own pack so you can pick what you want. The drawers and cupboard doors all open on the cabinet and bookcase so you can display or “store” items as you desire. All of the table options come in a single pack as well. I’ve added a few of the items from Dark Knight Decor to add a soft spring touch to the room. The wall frame, chicken vases, and trio of frames are each on sale for 10L. You can also find more Valentine’s day appropriate decor and a set of rings for sale.

There’s only a couple days left of the Cart Sale, so stop by now before it’s too late! Links all below.


~ Her Look ~

Hair: [elikatira] – Minah 2 – Exclusives ~ by Elikapeka Tiramisu

Dress: Mishmash Fusion – ~*MF*~ Sweet Surender Mini – Green Blossom ~ by Mystical Edenflower @ Cart Sale January 2018

Shoes: The Dark Fae – How Lovely Shoes Solid ~ by Corvi Ashdene @ Cart Sale January 2018

~ My Look 1 ~

Hair: Doe – Mary (solid) – Indecisive RARE ~ by Helyanwe Vindaloo

Dress: K&A Design – Rhea Dress (purple) ~ by Ayva Meili @ Cart Sale January 2018

Shoes: Mishmash Fusion – ~*MF*~ Love Me Do Boots – Black ~ by  Mystical Edenflower @ Cart Sale January 2018

~ My Look 2 ~

Hair: Doe – Mary (solid) – Indecisive RARE ~ by Helyanwe Vindaloo

Top/Skirt: .::battle fairy::. – cara set Sky ~ by Grace Selene @ Cart Sale January 2018

Shoes: REIGN – MOCCASIN WEDGES- FATPACK ~ by Kenadeecole Resident

~ My Look 3 ~

Hair: Doe – Mary (solid) – Indecisive RARE ~ by Helyanwe Vindaloo

Top: Dark Water Designs – Rose Suede Fringe Halter, black ~ by Shadowed Luik @ Cart Sale January 2018

Skirt: CroM – Sigrid – Blue ~ by Cronostbb77 Frankel @ Cart Sale January 2018

Shoes: REIGN – THIGH HIGH RIDING BOOTS- FATPACK ~ by Kenadeecole Resident

Hand Jewels: Kibitz – Sandra hand jewelry – silver ~ by Kathya Szczepanski

My Body Details

~ Furniture & Decor ~

House: Trompe Loeil – Cobi Lodge ~ by Cory Edo @ Uber

Couch: =EC Designs= – Retro Cuddle Couch ~ by Cara Lionheart, Jaxx Doulton, & Muireann Galli @ Cart Sale January 2018

Chairs: =EC Designs= – Retro Chairs ~ by Cara Lionheart, Jaxx Doulton, & Muireann Galli @ Cart Sale January 2018

Bookcase: =EC Designs= – Retro Bookcase ~ by Cara Lionheart, Jaxx Doulton, & Muireann Galli @ Cart Sale January 2018

Cabinet: =EC Designs= – Retro Cabinet ~ by Cara Lionheart, Jaxx Doulton, & Muireann Galli @ Cart Sale January 2018

Tables: =EC Designs= – Retro Tables Pack ~ by Cara Lionheart, Jaxx Doulton, & Muireann Galli @ Cart Sale January 2018

Dividers: =EC Designs= – Retro Room Dividers ~ by Cara Lionheart, Jaxx Doulton, & Muireann Galli @ Cart Sale January 2018

Wood Picture: Dark Knight Decor – Spring Roses Wall Art ~ by Mika Redfield @ Cart Sale January 2018

Trio Pictures: Dark Knight Decor – Spring Flowers Trio Wall Art ~ by Mika Redfield @ Cart Sale January 2018

Decor on Cabinet: Dark Knight Decor – Spring Chickens ~ by Mika Redfield @ Cart Sale January 2018

Candy: +Half-Deer+ – Spilled Candy Hearts ~ by Halogen Magic

Links — > Cart Sale January 2018, =EC Designs=, Mishmash Fusion

Saying All the Things I’m Thinking…

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Hello lovely people! The Cart Sale’s 10th Birthday/Anniversary round is nearing its end but I wanted to share a few more things to find there. All of the creators have really put in a ton of extra effort to make this a special event so don’t miss it before it ends on November 1st!

I have been feeling a little bit sexy lately and this is partly due to the new lingerie set I got from Dark Water Designs. This set is a gacha with babydoll dresses and panties that you can mix and match or if you snag the ultra rare, it is the fatpack of every solid lace and print option. The rares are fatpacks of the solid lace OR the print options. My favorite is the black and gray print version but there are many other pretty options to collect. For this post, my special man is guest starring and he seemed to like this set quite a bit as well. Sizes for this gacha are available for the Maitreya, all three Bellezas, both Slinks, TMP, and Standard bodies. Each pull is only 20L so play have fun playing this gacha and tease your man ladies! Or the fellas can gift them to their special someone too. 😉

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Another lovely piece I found at the Cart Sale is from ..::battle fairy::.. and comes in several pattern versions. It fits nicely but careful how you lay, you may want some panties ladies! Mesh models included in each print version are made for Maitreya, all three Bellezas, both Slinks, TMP, and Standard bodies. Standard mesh models come in five sizes. If you’re feeling daring, grab this gem while it is on sale!

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Some of the furniture I used in the first photo are from events that have been going on in October. On the wall is a clock from An Lema that I thought was spooky fun and it is one of several items they have at the Cart Sale. Unless you are good at scripting/building, moving it around is a bit tricky because the pendulum seems to only swing on one rotation. For decor though, it suits the mood of the room plenty for me.

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I also wanted to share this piece from Dictatorshop that I got in the October Bound Box. The Venus Cubed Ladies Entertainment Center is excellent for teasing, pleasing, and lounging around. While animations are heavily geared towards females, there are still plenty of options for males to enjoy including the couples’ animations. There are not couple’s pg poses except for the dances so keep little ones away from this or tuck it away in your playroom. Textures can be changed via the Dictatorshop logo on the back as well as security options. If you’d like, you can also try adding your own textures to it for more versatility. If you missed out on this Bound Box, check out their HQ for past boxes. Check here for info on subscription boxes.

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From Vicarious Youth at the Cart Sale, you’ll find a few Halloween themed outfits. Some are matching for moms and their little girls, some are for teens or adults.  The outfit I’m wearing is Resting Witch Face and comes in five standard mesh sizes and mesh models for Maitreya, Belleza, and Slink. Bottoms and tops are combined so it’s easy fitting.

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On my shoulder is a little Voodoo gacha from =EC Designs= that they made for Cart Sale. Each one is scripted to randomly say something or you can click it to pester it into saying something as well. Voodoo dolls are also customizable if you want them to say something else. Collect them all!

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Lastly I want to share another item from =EC Designs= that is at the Cart Sale. For 50L, this piece has a LOT of animations to help you get cozy and comfy for the season. As someone who likes to let out her inner cat, this lounger is purrrfect for curling up with a good book or with your sweetie to enjoy some fresh air. All of these poses are PG so no worries if you have little ones. They may want you to put it in their room too because they can sit on top!

Cart Sale ends November 1st so hurry stop on by before it’s too late to swipe these bargains up!


~ My Outfit 1 ~

Hair: Doe – Shannon (solid) – Gingers ~ by Helyanwe Vindaloo (Epiphany gacha item)

Lingerie: Dark Water Designs – DWD Babydoll Gacha ~ by Shadowed Luik @ Cart Sale October 2017

Ring: Plastik – :[P]:- The Delicate Vee Ring ~ by Aikea Rieko

Necklace: RealEvil – **RE** Kitty Pearls Set ~ Crashnoww Resident

Choker: Kibitz – Mini collar [Kitten] ~ by Kathya Szczepanski (Epiphany gacha item)

~ My Outfit 2 ~

Hair: Doe – Shannon (solid) – Gingers ~ by Helyanwe Vindaloo (Epiphany gacha)

Dress: ..::battle fairy::.. – ingrid laced dress hypnos ~ by Grace Selene @ Cart Sale October 2017

Ring: Plastik – :[P]:- The Delicate Vee Ring ~ by Aikea Rieko

Necklace: RealEvil – **RE** Kitty Pearls Set ~ Crashnoww Resident

Choker: Kibitz – Mini collar [Kitten] ~ by Kathya Szczepanski (gacha item)

~ My Outfit 3 ~

Hair: Doe – Shannon (solid) – Gingers ~ by Helyanwe Vindaloo (Epiphany gacha)

Top/Pants: Vicarious Youth – {V*V} Allyce Sweater & Leggings – Resting Witch Face ~ by Violet Steamweaver @ Cart Sale October 2017

Doll: =EC Designs= – Voodoo Buddy – Bleeding Heart ~ by Cara Lionheart, Jaxx Doulton, and Muireann Galli @ Cart Sale October 2017

Ring: Plastik – :[P]:- The Delicate Vee Ring ~ by Aikea Rieko

Necklace: RealEvil – **RE** Kitty Pearls Set ~ Crashnoww Resident

Choker: Kibitz – Mini collar [Kitten] ~ by Kathya Szczepanski (gacha item)

My Body Details

~ Furniture & Decor ~

Skybox: Luxe Sky Box – 1st Round Exclusive ~ by Blueberryxx Resident @ Luxe Box May 2016

Clock: An Lema – Dark Pleasures Wall Clock ~ by AelKennyr Rhiano @ Cart Sale October 2017

Table: Dictatorshop – [Ds] Venus Cubed – Ladies Entertainment Center ~ by Dictatorshop Resident @ Bound Box October 2017

Webs: +Half-Deer+ – Starlit Spiderwebs [Set of 5] ~ by Halogen Magic @Salem Event October 2017

Round Chair: The Loft & ARIA – Monaco Banquette Sofa V. 2 – Adult – Black ~ by Yelo Uriza

Tapestry: +Spellbound+ – Sacred Geometry Tapestry – Black ~ Kohana Xue (Arcade gacha)

Candles: * Mesh Nation * – FULL PERMISSIONS Cluster of Candles ~ by Twistia Twine

Bird Cage: +Half-Deer+ – The Mad Scientist’s Birdcage ~ by Halogen Magic

Lounger: =EC Designs= – Autumn Sunset Lounger ~ by Cara Lionheart, Jaxx Doulton, and Muireann Galli @ Cart Sale October 2017

Links — > Cart Sale, Dictatorshop, =EC Designs=


Sparks Fly From Her Finger Tips


Hi there guys! I hope you are all well and enjoying the fall colors. I know I am. I am also enjoying the fantastic creations merchants are putting out for the season. Right now the Cart Sale is having a special event for their 10 year Anniversary sale. On top of their usual 10L sale there are also gachas! This event will be going on longer than normal to give everyone plenty of time to shop. I have some peeks at what you can find there.


One of my favorite pieces this round is the gacha set from Mishmash Fusion. The Cobwebbed Dress has rich colors overlayed with spiderwebs that give it just a subtle spooky feel and the ruffle trim is nice and soft so you’ll still look cute. Each color comes in standard fitted and mesh sizes for for Maitreya, Slink Physique & Hourglass, Belleza Freya, Isis, & Venus; and eBody bodies. There are no rares so be sure to play it a few times! Only 20L a pull! To match the dress, I’m wearing The Dark Fae’s Samba heels which come fitted for Maitreya, Slink, and Belleza feet. The rare for this gacha is a fatpack will every color option.


My wonderful friend Mits picked up another dress from Mishmash Fusion that is on sale, the Lillian Dress Day of the Dead in pink. This dress comes in the same sizes as the Cobwebbed Dress and is covered in sugar skulls on the skirt. You’ll find matching shoes shaped like coffins for standard, Maitreya, Slink, and Belleza feet.

Both Mits and I are wearing nail polish from Koffin Nails that are on sale at the Cart Sale. They come in appliers for Maitreya, Slink, and omega. I’m wearing the special Pumpkin Spice Latte nail polish because I am a sucker for pumpkins and anything harvest-y. Check out our nails!


The living room set is from =EC Designs= and is called the Hideaway Parlor Set, which is comprised of five pieces sold for 10L apiece. A chair, couch, coffee table, side table, and lamp for 50L is a fantastic bargain. The couches come in in a version with a blanket and leaf pattern on the storage baskets and a version without the blanket and a pumpkin on the basket. There are PG couples and single sits in the couch and single sits in the chairs so there are plenty of options for everyone in the family.

On the wall are pictures that come in a set inspired by Edgar Allen Poe created by *PAN*. Also included in the set is a shelf that is not shown and the Nevermore lettering on the table. The pumpkins are from a gacha by Sequel with just one rare that I found to be darling and perfect for adding a touch of Halloween without going scary. The candelabra in the corner has a menu that let’s you pick the metal texture, candle flame type, and light colors. Even when it’s not spooky season, these pieces are great for any home.


Lastly I wanted to share the Crystal Skull that I have on the coffee table. Made by Dark Knight Decor, this fun rotating skull in a crystal will read your fortune when touched. Varying messages are pre-loaded into the notecard contents but it is fully customizeable so you can create your own fortunes! Or make some to scare your friends. Just remember what you put out comes back to you threefold!

That is all I have to share today but I will have more for you soon. Do not wait! Go find these goodies now!


~ My Look ~

Hair: +Spellbound+ – Blood Moon // Chapter I : Earth ~ by Kohana Xue

Dress: Mishmash Fusion – ~*MF*~ Cobwebbed Dress – Purple ~ by Mystical Edenflower @ Cart Sale October 2017 (gacha)

Shoes: The Dark Fae – Samba Fatpack RARE ~ by Corvi Ashdene @ Cart Sale October 2017 (gacha)

Nails: DP – Koffin Nails – FatPack – Pumpkin Spice Latte ~ by Bcreative Wilde @ Cart Sale October 2017

My Body Details

~ Her Outfit ~

Dress: Mishmash Fusion – ~*MF*~ Lilian Dress – Day of the Dead – Pink ~ by Mystical Edenflower @ Cart Sale October 2017

Shoes: Mishmash Fusion – ~*MF*~ Dead Promises Platforms – Pink ~ by Mystical Edenflower @ Cart Sale October 2017

Nails:  DP – Koffin Nails – FatPack – Fantasy Forest ~ by Bcreative Wilde @ Cart Sale October 2017

~ Furniture & Decor ~

House: Scarlet Creative – Wimberley Farmhouse Prefab ~ by Charlotte Bartlett

Couch/Chairs/Lamp/Tables: =EC Designs= – Hideaway Parlor Set ~ by Cara Lionheart, Jaxx Doulton, & Muireann Galli @ Cart Sale October 2017 (five piece set, 10L apiece)

Pumpkins: Sequel – Peppy Pumpkins Gacha – RARE BL & Sequel – Peppy Pumpkins Gacha – 9 BL ~ by Fallacy DeCuir @ Cart Sale October 2017

Candelabra: Lunar Seasonal Designs – Menu Driven Rusted Candelabra with Party Lights ~ by Lunar Tripsa @ Cart Sale October 2017

Dog: JIAN – Sugar Skull Pup ~ by Kalia Firelyte/Jiansl Resident @ Luxe Box October 2017

Crystal orb: Dark Knight Decor – DKD – Skull Crystal Ball ~ by Mika Redfield @ Cart Sale October 2017

Wall Hangings/tablepiece: *PAN* – Poe Selfie Set ~ by Luciferkraai Resident @ Cart Sale October 2017

Links — >Mishmash Fusion, =EC Designs=, Cart Sale


She Gazed with a Loving Beauty

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Fall is officially and as many of you know, it is my favorite season. I love the cooler temps, the changing colors on the leaves, everything pumpkin spice, and Halloween! I also really connect with the idea of the life cycle and what this time represents in that cycle. It’s a reminder that all things end but there is still beauty in that ending. Speaking of endings, the Twisted Hunt is fast coming to a close but I wanted to share a little from the hunt which ends September 30.

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My friend Myst at Mishmash Fusion is a merchant for the Twisted Hunt and is shop #42 on the hunt path. For this round, she’s made a gorgeous set of outfits for both females and males to wear inspired by the Victorian Goth hunt theme. Ladies can find themselves twirling about in this vision of red and black top/skirt set that together fits like a dress. On the back of the top is a lovely corset lace detail that tastefully shows a bit of skin that I just love. The textures on this outfit, called Remy’s Song, look great especially with advanced lighting on. Sizes included are classic standard mesh sizes XL-XS and fitted models for Maitreya, both Slinks, Belleza bodies, both Tonics, and TMP bodies. Men will find a dashing suit in red and black that comes in classic standard mesh sizes XL-XS and a pair of black shoes to complete the look. The stripes running down the Knives’ Suit are nice and sharp and will have any man feeling tall. Other color variations of both outfits are available in the gacha machines as well as other goodies.

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I also wanted to share a new item from Dictatorshop. The Driftwood Swing is a lovely addition to any yard and functions both as landscaping and a cozy spot for cuddles and more. Currently it is being sold exclusively at The Cosmopolitan Event which runs from now until October 7. While at the event, you can get this incredible piece 20% off in either Adult or PG only versions (Adult version includes the PG version). What I love about this set is that the animations are all great as I expect but also that the singles poses can be changed independently from the other person sitting with you. There’s so many choices I have no doubt you will love it like I do. In the menu for the Adult version, there are all of the PG poses as well as a fully loaded adult menu with both Vanilla and BDSM options. For more info on this set, see it inworld at the shop or check out Dee’s blog post here. Get it at the event while you can!

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A few other things of note, I’ve changed the logo for the blog and I’d like to give a huge shoutout/thank you to my friend Myst Cobalt for designing it for me. 🙂 I also want to remind you all that Cart Sale is coming up October 11 and it is a special round. Cart Sale is celebrating 10 years! There will be gifts, there will be gachas, and there will be lots of great deals! I will be covering the event so stay tuned!

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~ Furniture ~

Swing: Dictatorshop – [Ds] Driftwood Swing ADULT ~ by Dictatorshop Resident @ The Cosmopolitan Event September 27-October 7 2017

~ My Look ~

Hair: Moon. Hair – Fallon ~ by Silent Acoustic @ Luxe Box September 2017

Mask: Anachron – Masque of the Red Death – Women’s Mask ~ by Nix Marabana

Dress: Mishmash Fusion – ~*MF*~ Remy’s Song – THF17 Female – Timey Winey ~ by Mystical Edenflower @ Twisted Hunt Fall 2017

Shoes: #EMPIRE – Amaranthus ~ by Queenshop Resident @ Luxe Box September 2017

My Body Details

~ His Look ~

Suit: Mishmash Fusion – ~*MF*~ Knives’ Suit – THF17 Male – Timey Winey ~ by Mystical Edenflower @ Twisted Hunt Fall 2017

Sim: Mirage

Link — >Mishmash Fusion, Dictatorshop, Cosmopolitan Event, Twisted Hunt, Luxe Box


Some Kind of Madness is Swallowing Me Whole


I apologize for my absence! A combination of real life and a bit of a down mood has kept me from posting this when I originally received the items that are featured today. Read on for what’s been floating through my mind.

We all know that there are many things that drive us crazy. Rude customers or co-workers at work. Too slow drivers or traffic on our daily commutes. Finding presents left by the dog or cat for the 100th time on the carpet. Even something simple as the sound some people make when eating can set a person’s teeth on edge. But there are very few things, in my opinion at least, that can drive us to true madness. One of those things… is love.


For very few people, the search seems easy, almost like an arrow just pointing them in the right direction. But for most people, the search is rough, almost brutal at times. We look for signs to say, “Hey, turn here, open this door” or “Turn back now, wrong turn” to show us where we are supposed to be headed and with who. And if that wasn’t enough, our search can be for many different types of love. Even if we prefer to be alone, most of us seek companionship of some kind whether with family, friendship, a lover or a pet. The search for love, that special kind of love that comes from another person we want to spend the rest of our lives with…that love can bring us to a madness like no other.

I may be a bit of a hopeless romantic. I know it’s in everything I do, everything I say. As I’ve embarked on my quest for love, I’ve hit a few potholes, skinned my knees a few times, and leaped off a cliff without really being sure of what was at the bottom of the water. Love truly can be blind and that is usually what causes most of the hardship we end up experiencing when things go wrong. As Sigmund Freud said, “We are never so defenseless against suffering as when we love.” First love is always so innocent…nothing quite like it and the heartbreak we face when we realize the other person is not 100% perfect and not a good fit feels earth shattering for some.


Well… Freud also said, “One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful.” Although we lament all the hardship our hearts endure, they are strong and able to go through a lot of rough handling. It sucks, but eventually you get better at finding the right turns and all that hard work is worth it; the pain of the past lingers but not so strongly that you’re unable to find happiness again…

My main point? It’s a lot of what I’ve been talking about already. Don’t give up. Keep trudging along the rough paths, scraping your knees, and taking a tumble or two; just remember to pick yourself up and continue to move forward. Find your love whether that is a person, a cat or dog, or a group of friends who have your back. Don’t let madness swallow you.

Today I am sharing the Chesterfield Sofa, Chair and Stool. Both were at the Home Show 2017 but due to my mood and RL I was late to blog them. They are now at the mainstore and on Marketplace along with matching Bondage Benches. Personally, I love this set even more than the Contempo set that I have blogged about earlier this year. I think this is probably due to the detailing of the back cushions. Nonetheless, this set brings you all of your favorite smooth poses in the adult versions of each piece or the PG versions you can purchase if you don’t want the racy aspects.


Animations included in these pieces are as usual, superbly smooth and plentiful. Both leather and metals can be changed via the logo on the back of each piece and you can change the security of the menus as well. Poses are easy to adjust and swap for all your naughty needs. Dictatorshop has once again created sophisticated and elegant furniture that anyone would be happy to have in their home.

Until next time lovelies! 🙂

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~ My Look ~

Hair: Doe – Brenda – Gingers ~ by Helyanwe Vindaloo

Pantsuit: ISON – baroque jumpsuit (purple) ~ by Harry Hyx

Bracelet: e.marie – // RIGHT Friendship Bracelet – Sterling ~ by Emilianamarie Resident

Rings: Kibitz – Summer love rings – maitreya – gold ~ by Kathya Szczepanski

Shoes: #EMPIRE – Pelargonium ~ by Queenshop Resident

My Body Details

~ Furniture & Decor ~

House: Scarlet Creative – Huntsman Manor ~ by Charlotte Bartlett

Sofa: Dictatorshop – [Ds] Chesterfield Adult Sofa [C/M/NT] ~ by Dictatorshop Resident

Chairs: Dicatorshop – [Ds] Chesterfield Adult Chair [C/M/NT] ~ by Dictatorshop Resident

Stool: Dictatorshop – [Ds] Chesterfield OMNI Bondage Stool [C/M/NT] ~ by Dictatorshop Resident

Rug: Wood Works Furniture – Sheffield Red/Gold Rug ~ by Landru Mccallen

Curtains: MG – H&G – Silk Pool Curtains ~ by Maxi Gossamer

Bookcases: {what next} – Amelie Bookcase ~ by Winter Thorn (I modded color)

Books: SAYO – Stationed in Soho Gacha – Book Set – COMMON ~ by Kaysha Piers

End Tables: {what next} – Amelie Tables – Set of 3 ~ by Winter Thorn (I modded color)

Knick Knack: pr!tty – .tree {starfield projector} ~ by Karla Marama

Lamp: erratic – 07.erratic / lsm – table lamp – beige ~ by Erratic Rain

Lantern: Anachron – Andon Lantern – Seimei Kikyou ~ by Nix Marabana

Cat: +Half-Deer+ – Cozy Cat (if I fits, I sits) – Black Patch ~ by Halogen Magic

Tapestry: Rowanwood – {RW} Maghnus Collection Wall Hanging ~ by Searlait Nitschke

Stove: {what next} – Hanne Woodburning Stove Set – Iron ~ by Winter Thorn

Logs: {what next} – Pallet Log Box (VIP Group Gift) ~ by Winter Thorn

Desk: .aisling. – Bric-a-Brac Desk -Desk- ~ by Druunah Esharham

Desk Light: tarte. – desk light ~ by Alixxbella Resident

Chair: Trompe Loeil – Voliere Chair Copper + Bird ~ by Cory Edo

Links — > Dictatorshop


I’ve Got the Eye of the Tiger

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Hello lovely people! I am feeling pretty good and loving my summer. I hope everyone in the USA had a happy and safe Independence Day. Mine was pretty relaxing. Just a few thoughts I would like to share today.

If you read my last post, you’ll note I have been refocusing on what makes me happy these days. Putting myself first. Last week I got the itch to take a sexy photo or two, so I did and I started thinking about something. How do you start putting yourself first? Easy. Your voice.

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Okay maybe not so easy. Actually really not easy at times. Particularly if you really worry about what the people around you think. Sometimes it is really hard to tell someone what they need to hear. It’s hard to tell others what we want. We want people to like us so we say “Yes” even though we really want to say “NO.”

At times, it may not be easy, but if you use your voice, you will be heard. And I don’t mean just once in awhile. Consistently and honestly (and mostly politely unless they’re being a complete imbecile) say what you mean with your voice. Family and friends can support and care for you but they are unable to reach out and give you what you want. They can’t read your mind. They can help in some ways but the only one who can truly help get you where you want to be is yourself. So do what I am doing or trying to do… Roar.

Honestly, this post is a shoutout to all the lovely ladies in my life that are going through hard times right now. I may not have gone through the same situation, but we all go through rough times and we sink. We need reminders that we are worth it. We deserve happiness. We deserve love. We deserve to do whatever makes our hearts glow. Don’t let anyone make you believe otherwise. Even when we make mistakes, keep going, and don’t stop. Continue following your heart and the rest will follow.

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My look today is inspired by my inner Tigress and the empowering lyrics of Katy Perry’s Roar. My dress and lingerie set are from Blueberry in the Date Night set. Mesh fitted models included are for Maitreya, 3 Belleza bodies, and 2 Slink bodies. This set comes in several colors and the fatpack option includes exclusive color options. I recently went to Hair Fair and grabbed Aschera made by Runaway. The rings and shells on the hair have several color options and add an extra exotic touch that has me feeling sexy and confident. Grab it at Hair Fair to support Wigs for Kids! Only a few days left.

So cheers to my girlies (and the gents too!)! You know who you are. Without you I would not be where I am today and you’ve certainly helped me find my roar. Love to you all and see you soon. ❤


Hair: Runaway – [RA] Aschera Hair – Essential ~ by Candela Kira @ Hair Fair 2017

Dress/Lingerie: Blueberry – Date Night – Maitreya/Belleza/Slink – Fat Pack ~ by Blueberryxx Resident

My Body Details

Tiger: Jinx : Liger “Nare” – Reclining Rezzable – COMMON ~ by Julala Demina

Sim: Lost Unicorn

Links — > Hair Fair